Table for 2

As if we needed any proof that this was a ride we didn't get to control a week before C has her surgery I have suspected measles and we...

Rhythm: from Greek rhythmos, "means a "movement marked by the succession of strong and weak elements, or of opposite or different...

Chemotherapy is over, but after the initial euphoria the next waves start to loom on the horizon. More doctor's appointments. More...

Sex was integral to the start of this story. If you ever get a chance to have a beer with C she'd love to give you the details of 'How...

C: It's an intimate experience and the chemo team see you, they really see you, whether you want them to or not. They see the best you...

The length of this journey is sinking in, round by round. ‘Choice’ is stretching and folding it’s limbs constantly to fit into different...

We made this recording the day before an appointment when we'd find out if C could stop chemo at round 4. A choice that felt very real...

This whole period of treatment feels like a regular circuit of events, even if each loop around the track is a little bit different....

This was a really hard day for C and a difficult part of the ride for us and our relationship. After time apart we were trying to come...

Early on Saturday morning I packed the car and headed off for a week in the idyllic French countryside with a friend. This trip has come...

A hard day. One where I’ve had enough really and I want to escape. I want to swim and walk in the sun. Us to swim and walk in the sun....

The chemo ward is one of the least inspiring places to write but these days I take my spaces where I find them. We're on that hard...

This is a long and intensive road for both of us. In this conversation it's me, rather than C, who's feeling the strain as we gear up for...

The speed and nature of this ride means that sometimes it takes awhile for the impacts to settle in. A week after a difficult second...

Is it okay if losing your hair is a big deal? If it is a big deal, what's behind that? A conversation as we head into Round 2 expecting...

Today: Day 15 of Round 1 When high up in a whirlwind where does one start to describe the view? Do you first try and figure out just how...

For me the part of the beauty of these conversations is the gift of listening back. Time is not something we ever get back but time is...

Cancer and chemotherapy aren't words that sit quietly in the background. They're not words that allow everything else to go on as normal....

Tomorrow I start with treatment, well the medical stuff anyway. Antibodies and chemotherapy. My own version of treatment started a while...

This ride has moments when one or both of us feels big and moments when one or both of us feels small. This is a conversation during one...